I was at a Kacey Musgraves at the Ryman last year. Between the opening act of Sinclair and Kacey, it was a mix of beautiful songs, color and Sinclair talked about how hard it had been for her to come out as gay to her family, who basically disowned her. That all got mixed in my mind and I came up with the title and the chorus. Then I brought it to Craig and Tori and we finished it.